By Rob VirgesHow to Get a Girlfriend: 10 Simple Steps to Make Her Want You June 26, 2017December 4, 2021 #AskCofCattraction, connection, dating, flirting, love, relationships, touch "You get into the game to get out of it." - Random Disillusioned Lothario A few years ago when I was first learning the fundamentals of dating, I started to…
By Rob VirgesThe Fallacy of All-or-Nothing Thinking June 19, 2017December 4, 2021 Articlesemotional health, fitness, goals, motivation, success "Perfection is the enemy of the good" - Voltaire For the last two months, I've been experimenting with something new to get back into shape. The difference this time is…
By Rob Virges5 Simple First Date Ideas June 15, 2017October 29, 2021 #AskCofCattraction, connection, dating Student: "Hey Rob, I managed to get a date with a girl I just met at Whole Foods the other day! I'm excited but I'm also incredibly nervous about what…
By Rob Virges5 Signals She Wants You To Make a Move June 14, 2017October 29, 2021 #AskCofCattraction, body language, communication, touch In my last post on why looks don't always matter, I wrote about developing your internal self-confidence with four key mindset shifts and affirmations. In the fourth mindset, I go…
By Rob VirgesLooks Don’t Matter to Women: A Guide on Developing Your Inner Confidence June 12, 2017December 4, 2021 #AskCofCattraction, beliefs, confidence, dating, mindset, psychology "Never pick a fight with an ugly person, they've got nothing to lose." - Robin Williams The other day I wrote a post about going for girls that you deem…
By Rob VirgesHow to Move On: Part 2 – Understanding Your Emotions June 10, 2017December 4, 2021 #AskCofCemotions A few weeks ago I wrote an article about moving on and letting go of a girl you've either just recently broken up with, have been pursuing but she doesn't…
By Rob VirgesHow to Date Girls Out of Your League June 9, 2017October 29, 2021 #AskCofCapproaching women, attraction, mindset Student: "Hey Rob, I just don't think I can approach that girl over there." Rob: "Why not?" Student: "Well... I'm just too (insert excuse here)..." At one point or another,…
By Rob VirgesWhy Quitting is a Vital Part of Your Success June 6, 2017December 4, 2021 Articlesdating, mindset, motivation, psychology, success I just got off the phone with one of my best friends from college. Besides catching up, we always get into deep intellectual and philosophical debates about life, our respective…
By Rob VirgesHow to Not Miss Out on The One: Tips for Relationship Success May 31, 2017October 29, 2021 #AskCofCattraction, connection, courtship, dating, love, relationships I recently had a long conversation with a student who just went through our spring Dating Mastery Class. If I could, I'd give him an MVP award for being the…
By Rob VirgesHow to Get a Girl to Invest In You May 27, 2017October 29, 2021 #AskCofCattraction, connection, emotions, meeting women "Hey Rob, oftentimes I get into a conversation with a girl and it usually goes smoothly in the beginning, then out of nowhere, it gets stale, it stalls, and she…