“What’s the fastest way to get better with women?” That’s what Jeff asked me the first time I met him after one of my lectures. My answer was brief and…
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Chicago Tribune: Going Out on a Limb — With a Safety Net
“When I get nervous,” says a young woman named Rebecca, “I shut down. I go blank.” She sits in a circle of 20 in a dance studio in Manhattan. Everyone…
Slate: A Dating Coach for the Socially Anxious
“When I get nervous,” says a young woman named Rebecca, “I shut down. I go blank.” She sits in a circle of 20 in a dance studio on the west…
When to Kiss a Girl
One of the most common questions that men ask me is, “When is the right time to kiss a woman?” The answer is simple, but for many a bit frustrating:…
Learning How to Pick Up Women Made Me a Better (Black) Man
When Think Like a Man, the romantic comedy starring Gabrielle Union, Kevin Hart and Michael Ealy among others, hit the big screen, my friend, Trublud, said he “had to” see…
My First Experience with a Dating Coach
By David Seaman This past weekend I celebrated my 25th birthday in Vegas. My friend Chris Luna, a popular New York dating and relationship coach, was in attendance. He’s the…
The New York Times Going Infield with Dating Coach
By Eric V. Copage “It’s a back approach!” Michael McFadden shouted over the thumping music. “I’m not approaching someone from the back!” It was after 1 a.m. on Saturday and…